level 3

Parelli Level 3: Trusting My Skills

Alrighty, here's my story about Parelli Level 3.

So, Level 1 and Level 2 were mostly about me not dying or giving up.  I got to know my tools, myself, and my horse.  I found a new layer of dedication and grit, commitment and energy to reach a goal.  By the time I finished Level 2 I had started over with 4 horses for one reason or another.  It was a long and arduous journey and, I'd say to date, one of my greatest horsemanship accomplishments.

If you remember from my Level 2 post, I had submitted my Level 2 Auditions just weeks before attending my Fast Track course and found out I passed while at the class.

Me with my Level 1 red string when I arrived at the Fast Track.

Sooo proud to have my Level 2 blue string just a week or so into the course!

One month later at the end of the Fast Track, I was holding my green Level 3 string.

I feel like saying "BAM!" is in order.  One, because I feel cool when I say it and two, because that's basically how Level 3 happened for me.  Prior and proper preparation as well as having a lot of support during the Fast Track gave me the confidence I needed to assertively pursue my next Level.

Looking back I feel like my ENTIRE journey up until that point was all Level 3.  I mean, way back when I did my Level 1 Audition, Terry Wilson had told me that I was close to Level 3.  Now 6 years later I was still working within those same skill sets, where was the progression??

Sure, I had learned new things (mostly important emergency stop and Horsenality strategies), but I hadn't really been provocative or progressive.  I had been caught up in that vicious cycle of perfectionism and lack of confidence.  I got to a point where I trusted my horse and the process, I even felt good about the idea of sending in a less than perfect Audition, being on camera didn't bother me either...  I just didn't trust that I actually knew what I was doing.  I felt that Level 3 skills were better than what I had, thought Level 3 was more.  In my mind I had a picture of what a Level 3 horse and rider looked like, and while I wasn't focused on perfection, I just honestly didn't think we were that good.

FreeStyle has always been my most challenging Savvy with Aspen because she has so much forward, and if she's not going forward she's bucking.  In Level 3 FreeStyle it becomes a lot more important to keep your rein in the mane, or neutral, while riding around.  This was especially challenging for me on my high spirited, Right Brain Extrovert as I was constantly checking her speed with my reins.  Even riding with a Carrot Stick was death defying at times because I didn't have both hands at the ready to bend to a stop if I needed.

Because we still battled these impulsion issues I knew Level 3 was a far cry from being mine.  Level 3 horses didn't have impulsion issues, it was something they said you solved in Level 3.  After several intensely fast rides in which we had no speed control on a loose rein I knew we just weren't there yet.




Aspen and I in the Honey Comb riding the Clover Leaf pattern.  We got lucky that night and only had to share it with a few other students.  We rode that pattern SO MANY TIMES during the course! :)

My main goal for attending the Fast Track (aside from qualifying for my Externship) was to resolve impulsion issues.  My Fast Track was a month long course at the Colorado Parelli Ranch.  There were 60 students with 60 horses and about 6 instructors with horses too.  Our class made Pat's Arena Grande look like a dressage arena.  The combined energy of 132 hearts beating in one location was enough to blow Aspen's and my lid.  Calm, connected, and responsive was a distant dream.  Coming to a halt from any gait was a wish in the wind.  Fleeting thoughts of relaxation whipped between our ears as we drummed around on high alert.  There simply would be no way to do a pattern long enough to get our nerves down to have control on loose reins.  Bye-bye impulsion control.  Bye-bye goals.

The August Fast Track 2012 class!

The course experience is another story, I will tell you there were highs and lows, moments of "ah-ha!" and many moments of "oh no!"  The class tested every emotional fitness boundary that Aspen and I had as we struggled to keep control during our group riding sessions.  One thing we don't appreciate enough is simply how hours with our horse, miles in the saddle, and days of exposure lead to great things.  While we weren't riding around bridleless by the end of the course we certainly developed a lot of positive habits and skills together and I learned new strategies to gain and keep control.

As we lined up on the last day of class I was surprised and honored when they hung my green string around my neck... I was also confused.

I left feeling like I had somehow cheated the system, somehow they were mistaken.  We still couldn't ride around on loose reins everywhere.  We still had more go than whoa.  It truly bothered me for a very long time and I didn't understand why the instructors had given me my Level 3.

Over the next several months I began to realize that my SKILLS were Level 3, I had the knowledge and ability to achieve it with my horse given some more time.  After all, the Levels are about people - the horses are already Level 10 - this is a journey for us.  Each Level is another step for the human to learn the horse's language and take another brick out of the barrier between our species.  Level 3 was about ME!

Don't get me wrong, Aspen and I weren't that far from actually being able to do all of the tasks - our sole set back was our control on a loose rein.  But just because she wasn't centered enough to do that yet didn't mean that I didn't show Level 3 quality in my feel, timing, and balance.  It didn't mean that we didn't have the rapport, respect, relationship, and ability to get there.  Once I realized that the actual tasks might come in time but that my skills were there for Level 3 it was a liberating experience.  It was a journey I realized I had been on for so long, since the beginning, and I had finally done it.

Me and my friend Adency with our new Level 3 green strings! 

I can't say enough how the journey through Levels 1-4 in the Parelli Program change you.  Without an ounce of exaggeration, I would not be the person I am today had I not taken the time to go through the program.  I'm so excited to share with you all about my Level 4 and what it has meant to me and to my horsemanship to have completed it.

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Much love! oxox


Stick With Those Extroverted Horses!

A couple weeks ago I went on my first AERC 25 mile endurance race with Aspen!

The race was held in the beautiful national forest just east of Pagosa Springs, Colorado.  In addition to the 25 mile race there were also 50 and 75 mile races.

For those of you that don't know Aspen is my Right Brain Extrovert (RBE) Thoroughbred mare.  Being a RBE horse it doesn't take much for her to become unconfident and worried and therefore the need to move her feet (fast!) arises.

During the race Aspen struggled with maintaining gait and speed within the gait, not rushing up on or past the horse in front of us, spooking, being heavy on the forehand with her head in the air, jumping and leaping over bushes and puddles when she could have easily gone around, watching where she was putting her feet, and being generally out of control and afraid.

At mile 13 she finally had a slight mental shift and became somewhat manageable.  It seemed that she realized that she might not be able to maintain this level of energy she was pouring into her right brain behavior indefinitely.

At mile 18 she really made the mental/emotional change I was waiting for, turning into a thinking and left brain horse that might be interested in conserving her energy.  Between mile 18 and 23 she was a gem - I could ride her without risk of becoming jostled off or having to constantly bend her in some fashion to control the forward.  I could steer with my legs and we could maintain gait while doing so.

When we reached mile 23 she crashed.  She was so exhausted from her antics that we just walked back the last two miles, on a loose rein I might add.  She had expended all of her energy into being afraid and running on instinct rather than thinking about where she was going and managing herself through time and space.

The reason I share this with you today is because this experience gave me a huge BFO (blinding flash of the obvious) moment!

I have always struggled with finding calmness, connectivity, and responsiveness on the Parelli Cloverleaf pattern.  I've never been able to ride the pattern on Aspen without huge impulsion issues.  I've never been able to do even a single lap without having to touch my reins.

I figured I was doing it wrong but I didn't know what the problem was.  I would go until she was hot and sweaty and wanting to stop in the middle - looking for "X" - but she really never connected to the pattern.

After the endurance race was over it dawned on me...  If she could be impulsive and fight me for 18 miles (6 hours of riding) then just 20 minutes on the Cloverleaf certainly may not have been enough to find that calmness and connection I was looking for!

I realized how much energy she had and how strong and committed Aspen could be to her feelings and ideas over my (lack of) dedication to something like the Cloverleaf pattern.

I haven't had the chance to do try the pattern yet since the endurance race but I can't wait to do the Cloverleaf again with a better understanding of what "out-focus your horse" truly means.  It may mean 18 miles on that pattern (but I sure hope not!).  If it does though, I am ready to commit to it.  To promise her and myself that we will stick on the pattern until she truly understands it and is THINKING about staying on it without constant corrections to speed or direction.

Moral of the story?  Stick with those extroverts!  They need to move their feet before they can think which means that for every step they take you have to be prepared to use a ton of willpower and even more focus to keep on track, on your pattern, at the speed you want, and in the right direction.

It may have taken us 18 miles to find calm, connected, responsive but I bet it won't take that long next time.  Maybe 16 miles, then 10, then 7, then 3, then pretty soon I can just get on and have it right away because she knows I am there for her, as her leader and alpha, and am willing to stick with her until she TRULY finds peace within herself and her brain kicks in.

Go with your extrovert, every step, every mile.  It will be worth it when you win their mind and emotions!