Today we played with all the things we've been working on over the last two and a half weeks under saddle - soft touch, circles, stretching,  and freestyle riding.   I decided that what Aspen and I need to work on the most is actually a little more elementary than the finesse we've been working on of late.  The steady feel in her mouth is like holding her hand - she really likes it and finds comfort and focus in soft touch... where we really fall apart is our freestyle riding where she turns into a 1200 pound noodle that doesn't like to stop by my seat.  Susan helped me come up with a plan for creating some consistency in an environment full of variety (18 horses plus an arena on a hill).  The plan will be to ride counter clockwise so I don't have to yield the rail and play the corners game with Aspen - focusing on straightness, being particular about offering her the stop with loose reins, and not allowing her to be sloppy.

Maurice had us also play with leg yields which turned out to be very frustrating for me.  I don't know why we keep getting jammed up and I felt really discouraged after the ride was over.  During lunch I remembered what Ann Kiser told us on Day 1, that if you're not feeling something you aren't learning anything.  Sometimes learning can be uncomfortable and frustrating but you need to experience that to push the limits of your knowledge farther and farther - expanding your educational horizon :)

During the afternoon session we covered Falling Leaf, S Pattern, and Rock Slide.  Aspen was awesome and once I became more particular about her attitude during the send I got a lot of draw and effort!  I even got her to jump a tiny upright stump in the pasture!  I had the opportunity to chat with Maurice about the leg yields during this time and explained that I felt that Aspen and I might perform the yields better if I could do them uphill or on level surface to lighten her front end or to do them heading for the rail as a point to point.  He was very encouraging of my lateral thinking and said that I should give it a try.  Advancing in horsemanship isn't about following all the rules it's about learning them through and through and then redefining them to work for each horse as an individual.

So tomorrow, I hope to ban all frustration from my ride and get a fresh start with leg yields and expand on our great on-line session we had this afternoon! :)

Lesson with Linda!

Wow - what a day!  This morning started off cool and beautiful and I got a lovely greeting from one lovely Thoroughbred mare this morning waiting for her few minutes of morning turnout.  Boy, do I love my sweet horse! :)

After our morning meeting we had a brief chat with Pat where he told us about his expectations for us as Parelli Professionals and how to be optimistic and realistic at the same time to achieve our goals.  Pat talked to us outside the lodge while astride one of his horses, even just sitting on his horse everything he did was with the utmost quality and his horse was so responsive and connected.  He makes it seem so easy and so simple to be that good, to have a horse that light and ready - and I suppose it really is simple... but not always easy.  That's where earning it comes to play - earning it from the horse and earning it from yourself. 

Pat bid us farewell and we headed back to the Extern barn for our morning with Linda!  I was surprised that I wasn't really nervous at all - I felt excited and anxious this morning but when it came time to actually ride in front of her I just found calmness.  I can only do my best and trying to mask any issues I have when riding Aspen or hide at the far corner of the arena would only be counter productive to being positive and progressive.  Who better than Linda to get help from?  She instructed us to go ride and demonstrate where we're at and to show Soft Touch in preparation for Game of Contact in her planned future sessions with us. 

She helped show us how Soft Touch should feel with a simulation holding the reins and then sent us off again with the instruction to keep our fingers closed but soft, shoulders loose, and elbows elastic.  It's surprising how much contact (for lack of a better word) that you can have with a horse's mouth during Soft Touch - it actually feels better to the horse to have a steady or firm feel in the mouth than a light, wispy, fly-like feeling that is just annoying or confusing.  She also explained that in Level 1 and 2 people tend to reduce the speed of their horses for control but in Level 3 and 4 we need that speed and momentum again for higher level maneuvers and advancing techniques.  We asked our horses to trot out a bit until they found a good rhythm and stretch while working on the Soft Touch.  Toward the end of the session as I went by Linda she called out - "Samantha!  That's looking great!"  I about rode right into the fence I was so excited and flattered.  So awesome and so inspiring and so motivating and validating and everything wonderful that happens to you when Linda Parelli pays you a compliment. 

After Linda left I got a little clarification on weighting stirrups from Susan to help in shaping my circles - push down with your toe, not out and you won't lean off the side of your horse!

We wrapped up the day with a game of catch to wake us up after lunch and half the class did their breed presentations - I closed the day out with some awesome liberty trailer loading with Aspen then cleaned up for the evening and went home.

I can't believe I am living this life right now!  So amazing!